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Mr
Lau was a wonderful teacher who enriched the lives of thousands
of students under his charge. There was never a dull moment
during his lessons which were delivered in his clipped Oxford
accent, and with the occasional "mana boleh" (his favourite
expression) which cropped up every now and then as he
spoke.
Many
students attribute their good command of English
to Mr Lau. According to Mike Chan (Class of 59/61), "Coming
from a non-English speaking home, my English was only so-so but
through Mr Lau's patient tutelage, it improved by leaps and bounds.
He inspired me to be
a lover of the English language and literature, subjects that I
eventually obtained distinctions for in the 'O' and 'A' level
exams".
Mike shared with us that he will always remember "The Mysterious Mr Quinn",
an Agatha Christie book which Mr Lau chose for literature.
Here's Mike's account: "Mr Lau went through the
book chapter by chapter with us. One day, after finishing
Chapter 4 (or so), he simply told us to skip chapter 5 completely and jump to chapter 6, i.e. read at home to prepare for the next lesson. He did not explain
why and out of curiousity I went home to read Chapter 5 and then
realised why ... it was about Mr Quinn's visit to a lonely young widow and his sojourn with her and of course what comes naturally.....very subtly written for the 50s but quite X-rated if you read between the lines. I suppose
our Mr Chips did not want to "corrupt" our young minds by having to explain what was happening between Mr Quinn and the widow."
Another
student attesting Mr Lau's great influence on him is
Lim Kok Lian
(Class of 59).
"He was a teacher with a very high standard. If he gives you a "B" grading, you would be doing quite well in his taught subject.
It was
because of his constant push for EXCELLENCE in English that he
laid a strong foundation in me and this has most definitely
benefitted me throughout my adult life and career. Mr Lau,
thank you for investing your talent in me which I will always
remember and cherish. I look forward to seeing you again
someday, in that 'great getting up morning'!
Until then,
au revoir, Mr Chips!"
Although
Mr Lau appeared to be a no-nonsense and somewhat stern teacher,
he was equally sporting in more ways than one. He played a part
in introducing rugby to the school and Hamid Jinnah (Class
of 59/61)
remembers vividly that after their first trial game, a group of
the players encircled him and pulled his shorts down!
According to Hamid, "He was very sporting and took the
ragging in good humour. We were certainly blessed with
dedicated, caring and sporting teachers like him!"
Mr
Lau was also unassuming and full of humility as
Phillip Lee Soo
Hoon (Class of 59) would testify. "When Mr Lau was
the Principal, my firm used to audit the School's accounts, and
he never thought or regarded me as his former student. Instead,
he offered help so that I can finish my work. He was such
a caring person, and one of the very few great men I have had
the privilege to know. Rest well, Mr Lau. You deserve it. You
have fought a good fight and finished the race well."
Mr
Lau was indeed bigger than life and the epitome of a perfect
gentleman. We will surely miss him. The flood of tributes
that flowed in is a testament to the immense influence he had
over many in the ACS family, the Methodist Church and the
community. In addition to the reports in the press, email
exchanges over the net and the
Facebook page in memory of him, we would
like to share with you below some personal anecdotes that speak
volumes for Mr Lau; these accounts also reveal some aspects of him which
few are aware of.
"Ernest
Lau had a big voice, a smile that could light the skies of
Singapore, a strong handshake and an enthusiasm for life.
He had a daily routine of walking twice around our housing subdivision every morning and evening. His walking was a jog even in later years when he used a stout walking stick to help him along.
The neighborhood dogs would bark until he softly quieted them. The dogs paid attention to him!
He had a fantastic memory. He was commenting about the speech I had just given, when he said," Say, didn't you represent ACS in a speech competition?" Sure did but that was 43 years ago! I remembered rewriting my speech because the original elicited a few 'grumphs' from him. By that I mean he made some inaudible noises. Mr. Lau expected the best. What a joy it was to be able to step up to the plate. And he remembered!
When invited to dinners, he sent bouquets of flowers with notes of grateful thanks and appreciation. What a classy thing to do!
He entertained my children with his kung-fu sword routine...every step performed perfectly....done on his driveway... neighbors stopped to watch. No short cuts with that routine and it ended up to enthusiastic applause. Such a wonderful way for the neighbors to get together and connect.
Lau was a classy gentleman, my friendly neighbor and my teacher. He was a beautiful person. I will miss him. We all will for a great person has left us."
Suellen Ng (Pre-U Arts Class of 60/61)
"I was moved by the eulogies made at Mr Lau's funeral
service, especially the relevation that he had made a $1million
donation towards the purchase of a property adjoining Kampong Kapor Methodist Church for a sanctuary to serve the
community, and not just the church. The building is named "The
Unfailing Light", after a magazine that his father, the late Rev
E. S. Lau, was editor of.
Those of us fortunate enough to have Earnest Lau as our class teacher in Sec 4D quickly overcame the terror that other students faced in his presence. You will recall his nicknames of Bulldog, Ernie and Ah Lau. My first encounter with
him was when I was in Sec 3, and it was over the use of 'can' versus 'may' - something that I remember till today, and I am certain that I was not the only one. I had gone to his class and asked 'can I speak to so-and-so?' and his loud retort was 'can you? CAN YOU?', followed by an even loud roar 'MAY I'!!
Lim Cheng Wee (Class of 65/67)
"Eloquent and always well-attired, he was courteous and kind to all his students regardless of who they were,
as all his students were equal before him. Yet, he was not unaware that some among them would need help more than others given their different family backgrounds. To this end, he would leave no stone unturned to come to their aid.
I recall the time when Mr Lau approached me to ask if I could give up my school scholarship - I was 3rd in class and only 3 school scholarships were available - for the 4th boy as I did not need the scholarship money, whereas the 4th boy needed the money to carry on. I was touched by his care and concern for the 4th boy; more, I was also surprised that Mr Lau made it his personal interest to know not only his students in classwork, but their family backgrounds as well, to come to their help should the need arise. I readily acceded to his request.
Mr Lau was very kind and easily approachable for his
students to feel at ease before him; this, at a time when
corporal punishment was the norm in schools. He never pinched,
let alone slapped, anyone of us. If at all he was displeased
with our misbehaviour, he would still smile and banter with us
even as he got his message across to us in no uncertain terms.
It is no wonder that he was much respected and loved by his
students".
Yap Swee Hoo (Class of
57)
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